Sex Test

Is the physical side of your relationship all that it could be? Are you missing out on the benefits and pleasures that you could be enjoying?

Sex makes a couple closer through shared vulnerability and nakedness of the soul as well as the body. Take this test and see what might be possible.

Did you know that making love is known to create endorphins that make you feel good, build your immune system, and keep you young? Not a bad trade-off for something that can be so enjoyable.

Take this test and see what needs to be worked on.  I recommend you each take the test, compare your answers, then work together to insure that you your love and fulfillment grows.

Directions: Answer the following 10 questions by filling in the answer most consistent with your point of view.

Possible answers:

9 – 7 = definitely true

6 – 4 = moderately true

3 – 1 = not at all true

1) I feel comfortable being naked in front of my partner.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

2) I tell my partner, in loving ways, what I like them to do to me.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

3) I like experimenting with new ways to make love.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

4) I like doing things to my partner that they enjoy.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

5) I sleep naked or in things that make me feel attractive, sensual and sexy.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

6) I like my body.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

7) I like being spontaneous and say yes to opportunities to make love with my partner.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

8) I enjoy all the sensual aspects of lovemaking; sight, sound, touch, smell, taste.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

9) I experience a deep connection with my partner when we make love.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

10) It’s good for lovemaking to vary from fun to deeply spiritual.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

Scoring

70 – 90

If you score in this range, you’re comfortable and open to all that’s possible for you and your lover and you benefit from a deeper connection, body, mind and soul.

40 – 60

If you score in the mid-range, you’re a bit inhibited but probably enjoying yourselves. If you stretch the boundaries of your comfort level you will discover how much better it can be.

0 – 30

If you score in the lowest range, you will benefit by opening yourselves to a a richer, deeper level of intimacy. Determine what baby-steps you can take to be more comfortable and if you can, talk with your partner about helping you move to the next level. It can be a very sweet journey.

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