Newlywed Test

Are you doing the things that will insure your relationship stays vibrant? Take this test and see how you score. If your score is low, it only means you need to start doing those things you did when you were falling in love. 

Take this test and see what needs to be worked on.  I recommend you each take the test, compare your answers, then work together to insure that you your love and fulfillment grows.

Directions: Answer the following 10 questions by filling in the answer most consistent with your point of view. At the end, total up your score.

Possible
answers:

9 – 7 = definitely true

6 – 4 = moderately true

3 – 1 = not at all true

1) I tell my partner all the reasons why I love them.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true > 3 2 1

2) I compliment my partner.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

3) I appreciate and thank my partner for what they do for me.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

4) Instead of nagging, I make my requests with loving sensitivity.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

5) I flirt with my partner in lots of creative ways.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

6) I do thoughtful, loving things for my partner.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

7) I’m considerate of my partners needs and desires.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

8) I touch my partner in loving ways.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

9) I plan fun activities for my partner and I to do together.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

10) I let others know how lucky I am to have found my partner.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

Scoring

70
– 90
 

The higher your score the better your chances of a long and loving marriage.

40 – 60

If your score is in the mid-range you’re still doing well but you could easily slip into a comfortable routine of not remembering to nurture your relationship . That could begin a downward spiral.

0 – 30

If you score is in the lowest range you have some problems that need immediate attention or you could find yourselves in divorce court.

One of the benefits in taking a test like this is that you become aware of things you might not have noticed before. You can’t really select things to improve if you aren’t aware of what you’d like to change. Now, hopefully, you do.

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