Marriage Test

How is your marriage doing? Have you become roommates who simply share expenses, chores and the same bed? Is it possible to bring back those in-love sparkles that your heart craves?

Take this test and see what needs to be worked on.  I recommend you each take the test, compare your answers, then work together to insure that you your love and fulfillment grows.

Directions: Answer the following 10 questions by filling in the answer most consistent with your point of view. At the end, total up your score.

Possible
answers:

9 – 7 = definitely true

6 – 4 = moderately true

3 – 1 = not at all true

1) I focus on my partner’s best qualities.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

2) I never nag or complain because I know it creates disharmony.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

3) I look forward to going to bed with my partner and at least cuddling.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

4) I enjoy doing fun things with my partner.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

5) I love it when my partner touches me throughout the day.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

6) I do creative things to keep the romance alive.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

7) I only say flattering things about my partner to others.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

8) I speak kindly toward my partner when we’re out in public.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

9) I look for things to do with my partner around the house.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

10) I love being married to my partner.

definitely true 9 8 7
moderately true 6 5 4
not at all true 3 2 1

Scoring

70 – 90 

The higher your score the more you are enjoying a rich and pleasurable marriage filled with love.

40 – 60

If your score is in the mid-range you’re probably not paying much attention to your relationship.

0 – 30

If your score is in the lowest range you have some problems that need immediate attention or you will find yourselves in divorce court or slipping into The Settling

One of the benefits in taking a test like this is that you become aware of things you might not have noticed before. You can’t really select things to improve if you aren’t aware of what you’d like to change. Now, hopefully, you do.

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