Love Test For Women

Take this Love Test and see if you can uncover what has kept you from having the relationship you heart desires. The questions are close to the questions in the Self Love Test, but aimed at being in a romantic relationship.

You’ll know how well you’re doing after you take this quiz. Notice which questions you would have liked a higher score. This is not a problem because it only means you’ve become aware of something you can fix… and more easily than you might think.

Directions: Answer the following 10 questions by filling in the answer most consistent with your point of view. At the end, total up your score.

Possible answers:

9 – 7 = definitely true

6 – 4 = moderately true

3 – 1 = not at all true

1) I am thoughtful of others wishes, desires, needs and wants.

Do you consider what others need and want? When you’re in a relationship is it easy, enjoyable, and natural to consider what your partner wants? Do you get pleasure out of being thoughtful and kind?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

2) I am respectful of others.

Do you speak to others in a respectful manner? Are you considerate of others feelings? When you are in a relationship do you treat your partner as a respected equal? And you don’t play the “male bashing game” with your friends?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

3) I am good at nurturing myself.

Do you take the time to be good to yourself? Do you allow yourself the simple pleasures that make you feel good? Do you eat well, get enough sleep and exercise regularly? Do you take time to relax? Do you nourish your mind?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

4) I am playful.

Are you able to let your childish spirit come out and romp? Do you look for opportunities to dance and even be a little silly? Do you make time to be with friends? When you are in a relationship do you make a point to play and flirt with your partner, making sure that he doesn’t take life too seriously?  Do you encourage your partner to make time for vacations, time with friends, time to dance and celebrate?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

5) I go out of my way to notice the best qualities in others; and also bringing them out and acknowledging them to enhance their self-esteem.

Do you enjoy telling others that they look good, that they did a job well, that they’re smart or capable? When you are in a relationship do you look for opportunities to let your partner know you find him attractive, capable and smart?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

6) I’m good at making others feel special.

Do you let others know what’s special about them? When you are in a relationship are you considerate of what your partner’s soul needs from you?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

7) I go out of my way to invite laughter into my life.

Do you look for opportunities to laugh? Do you offer humorous anecdotes and share that new joke you heard? Do you go to funny movies with friends? Do you laugh easily? When you are in a relationship do you enjoy laughing with your partner, sharing funny stories, movies and jokes?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

8) I enjoy giving men the opportunity to be my hero.

Do you look for ways to let men do things for you? When you are in a relationship do you look for ways for your partner to help you solve problems, fix things or use his abilities, intelligence and skills to impress you?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

9) ) I spend my money on worthwhile people and things.

Do you enjoy spending money on the people you care about? Do you enjoy spending money on yourself? When you are in a relationship do you enjoy putting a smile on your partner’s face with special purchases, occasional surprises and even occasionally paying for the day-to-day expenses of life?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

10) I am generous with my time.

Do you like taking time to be with family and friends? Do you offer to work on projects that will benefit others? When you are in a relationship do you enjoy spending time with your partner, doing things he enjoys, and doing things for him?  Do you invite your partner to join you to do things that you enjoy?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

11) I am verbally appreciative.

Do you think to let others know when they do a good job? Do you thank people for being kind or thoughtful? Do you let your family and friends know that you are happy they are in your life? When you are in a relationship do you make a point to appreciate your partner for the things he does for you, for how good he is at his job, for how creative he is, for how thoughtful and considerate and loving he is?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

12) I practice gratitude.

Are you in the habit of noticing what you’re grateful for? Do you let the Universe or God (whatever God is to you) know how grateful you are for the things you have and even for simply being alive?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

13) I express with my words and actions how much I care for family, friends, and partners.

Do you tell your family and friends that you love them, that they matter to you, that they’re important to you? Do you show them on a regular basis? Do you occasionally, out of the blue, pick up the phone and express your heartfelt affection for them? Do you enjoy making the people around you happy?

When you re in a relationship, do you tell your partner on a regular basis that you love him, that you think he is wonderful, that you are lucky to have him in your life, and that your life would not be quite as good without him? And do you give him lots of the kind of physical affection he enjoys?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

14) I take good care of my body.

Do you eat well, sleep enough, exercise, keep your weight at a healthy level? Do you show the world, and the men you date, that you respect and honor your body?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

15) I have a positive, optimistic attitude.

Do you smile easily, are you playful with others, do you feel like life is good and likely to get better? Are people happy to have you around? When you are in a relationship are you a joy to be around?  Do you do your best to buoy the spirits of your partner and try to make your life together as good as possible?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

16) I communicate with clarity, confidence and compassion.

Do you make a point to speak to others with forethought, so that your communications are received in the way you intend? Do you pay attention to how others respond to what you say? When you are in a relationship do you put in the effort to make certain that your words, intention, and heart’s desire are understood?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

17) I listen with heartfelt respect.

Do you listen closely to what others are saying to you, letting them know you care about what they’re communicating? Do you make eye-contact, not looking around for someone more interesting to talk to? When you are in a relationship do you repeat back to them what you hear them saying, making sure they communicate to you what they want to, giving them the comfort of knowing you care enough to want to know what they are saying?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

18) My sexual energy is flowing.

Do you allow yourself the enjoyment of being a sexual being, even when you don’t have a partner? Do you enjoy the sensual pleasures of food, beautiful things, colors, smells, even the feel of a warm breeze on your skin? Do you allow life to be enjoyed rather than endured? When you are in a relationship do you go out of your way to be sexually playful and erotically enthused to share your sexuality with your partner?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

19) I celebrate my aliveness.

Do you ever dance for no reason, simply because it feels so good to be alive?  Are you in awe of your ability to feel your emotions, all of them, to the depths of your being?  Are you in awe of the universe, life, and your God-given gift of being a woman  When you are in a relationship do you use the love you share to honor the gift of your humanness, to squeeze everything possible out of the life you share?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

20) I feed my mind, heart and soul.

Do you look at life’s experiences, especially the uncomfortable or painful ones, as opportunities to grow? Do you read books, take workshops and go out of your way to understand yourself so that you can be a happier, more effective person? Do you take full responsibility for the outcomes that result from your attitudes and actions, no matter what?

When you are in a relationship are you in the habit of seeing both sides of “the dance,” how everything that happened between you is partly your doing and partly his? Do you understand that relationship, more than anything else in life, is the greatest challenge and therefore, the greatest opportunity for you to learn, grow, and have more of what you want in life?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

21) I am always growing, working toward becoming the best person I can possibly be.

Do you strive to evolve, so you can always be moving toward the best version of you?

9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1
definitely true moderately true not at all true

Your Score

If you score 189 – 157 you are emotionally healthy woman and your relationships with everyone are deeply satisfying. When you are in a relationship, your romantic life is no-doubt deeply fulfilling. You have probably been on a self-discovery path and have been purposefully growing and evolving.

If you score 156 – 127  you’re extremely healthy and enjoy fulfilling relationships. You are an inspiration to others, making them feel good when they are around you. When you are in a relationship, your man feel blessed to have you.

If you score 126 – 97 you’re healthier than most, but have a few things you know you need to improve. In your current or future relationship, if you are with an evolved man, you will enjoy the opportunity to grow and evolve together, expanding your love with each step.

If you score 96 – 67 you are in a perfect position to enjoy the adventure of self-discovery. As you explore the inner regions of your  psyche, you will discover that it feels good to open your heart to the love that is all around you.

If you score 66 – 21 you are probably finding relationships difficult. You have been wounded in your early childhood and put a lot of energy into trying to stay safe. You might be suffering from insecurity, which will hold you back from truly enjoying life and the gift that you are.

I hope you enjoyed taking this survey and that you learned something about yourself.

Check our many resources that are all designed to help you be happier with your relationship, with you, and with your life.

As always, helping you make magic, everywhere you go,

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